Reasons Why We Can’t Stay Sober

Published On: June 26, 20165.6 min read1121 wordsCategories: Addiction Treatment And Rehab

Are you thinking of entering an alcohol rehab center, but unsure if it’s the right thing for you? Do you constantly think that life without addiction will be better than what you’re going through now, but can’t seem to stay sober?

This happens to many people who are going through substance abuse issues. You want to be sober but you just can’t bring yourself to it. Why? There are many different reasons.

Below you’ll find some of the most common problems we face when trying to become sober. The good news is, even though these are quite challenging, the ability to overcome these challenges is possible. With the right rehab, therapy programs, and support group, you will find recovery.

You’re unable to be honest with yourself.

Being truthful with yourself is the first step towards recovery. If you can’t admit to yourself that you have a problem you won’t be able to get the help it takes to make a full recovery. Being honest with yourself will help you the most throughout this journey.

You can’t be honest with family and friends.

Your loved ones know you have an addiction. Even if no one has verbally said it, they know. Until you’re able to admit they know you can’t get the help you need to fight addiction.

You’re not able to make a long term commitment.

You think of recovery and love the idea of it but worry that the commitment is too much. It’s a long term, lifelong commitment that will take time and dedication. It’s not free or easy. If you want to stop the addiction and get healthy again, you’ll have to make this commitment.

You’re not ready to put forth the effort it takes to recover.

Working toward being drug or alcohol-free is hard. There’s no way around it. It takes time, dedication, and motivation. If you don’t put forth the effort it takes you’ll never find recovery. Doing whatever it takes is key. Going to meetings, staying away from old hangout spots and friends that you used will be necessary. You might have to get up early on Saturday morning to attend a rehab meeting or miss an outing with the family to ensure you’re doing what it takes to stay away from relapse. This can be difficult. It can also be very rewarding. Those that do not put forth the effort will not find recovery.

You’re closed-minded.

Addiction is a way of life. It consumes everything you ever knew and turns it into something else. Your relationships are affected, work is different and ultimately, you lose everything you ever knew. Recovery is a new way of life. Sometimes, addicts aren’t ready to be open-minded to a new lifestyle. They’re scared to face new things. Getting stuck in a rut becomes your new normal and you’re not ready to give it up yet. If you’re not willing to keep an open mind and work towards recovery you’ll never be able to beat addiction.

You’re worried it won’t be worth it.

Many times, making promises can end badly. While you might have made a promise to something or someone in the past that went wrong, recovery will never steer you wrong. You’ll be healthier, happier, and better off, overall. Be honest with yourself. Do whatever it takes to keep your promise of sobriety. And, if you fail, get up and try it again. Never lose hope and faith that you can one day stay sober forever. Until you know it’s worth it – for health or happiness reasons – you won’t seek help.

You don’t want to find recovery.

Each time you drink too much or get too high you find yourself begging for help. Whether it’s physically saying you need help or mentally thinking it, you are pleading for support and help. Your family and friends might be wondering why you continue to use but the answer is simple. You want to keep getting high or getting drunk. If you’re willing to put yourself in this position so easily, you’ll never find real recovery. Until you’re ready, you’ll continue down the path of addiction.

You don’t have the will power.

Sometimes, as we get out of rehab and back into the world, we thrive. Life without drugs or alcohol is amazing. We love having our relationships back. We love having our old life again. However, this doesn’t happen to everyone. We can sometimes fall back into our old ways because we have no will power or endurance. Recovery takes a long time to achieve. Sometimes, it takes a lifetime. You can’t expect to be free and clear of relapse possibilities the first day out of rehab. You can’t even expect that a year after. It’s a constant battle and struggle that you must face. Fighting triggers and urges to use takes will power. Until you’re ready to put in the effort it takes to fight urges and relapse, you’ll never be able to stay sober.

You’re worried you’re missing out.

Friends or family that love drinking or doing drugs will continue to do so long after you’ve recovered. You feel that if you choose sobriety you might miss out on something fun and exciting. Fortunately, that’s far from the truth. Your most exciting days are yet to come. Trusting sobriety and recovery will show you the way to happy, fun, and exciting days to come!

You don’t trust rehab.

It might sound scary or unhelpful, but rehab is a great way to rejoin life sober. This is especially true at Freedom Detox. We offer programs geared toward your needs. You’ll find great support at our facility. Don’t hesitate to contact us to learn more about our programs. We are here to help you through this difficult time. Don’t worry about whether not you can trust us. You can. We are here for you.

Find Lasting Sobriety Today at Freedom Detox

If your son, daughter, or other family member is showing signs of having a major drinking problem, it’s time to get them sober again. While you might think that you are all alone in this struggle, that is the farthest thing from the truth. There are numerous families dealing with alcohol abuse every day.

Regardless of how bad alcohol use has become, help is always available at our Charlotte alcohol rehab center. Contact Freedom Detox today. We are here to help them get back on track by offering alternative therapies that won’t interfere with their schooling or work schedules.

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